Several
things bothered me about what had transpired. However, one particular thought
really struck me. What’s the deal with teenage girls? Why does everything they
touch apparently turn into something equivalent to dog feces?
It seems like whenever the general teenage girl population
decides they like something, a taboo force field is placed around that thing
and it automatically becomes worthless, frivolous, and silly. Take Justin
Bieber, for example. While within the social sphere of the teenage girl there
is pressure to like him, outside that sphere there is pressure to hate him- or
be doomed to the superficial and naive teenage girl stereotype. Why can’t
tastes be tastes? Does society need to portray the interests of teenage girls
as cheap and silly? I think that this concept of the “teenage girl curse”
really undermines feminism too. All too often I have discovered that one of my favourite
self-proclaimed feminists falls prey to the trend of demeaning and patronizing
teenage girls and their interests.
Being younger may make you less
experienced, but does it make your interests any less sincere? I don’t believe
so. It is sad that an older person like the girl employee in the bookshop feels
the need to defend herself from being accused of sharing some tastes with a
teenage girl demographic, like she should feel shameful of it. No wonder
teenage girls are notorious for their low self esteem- they are constantly told
that everything they love is silly and worthless and “insipid teenage trash.”
Imagine a world in which tastes aren’t classified with certain genders and age
groups. People would definitely feel more freedom to love what they love- and
never be ashamed of it.
I really like the points you made in this post. While I personally dislike a great deal of the media typically associated with teenage girls (Twilight, Bieber, et. cetera), the people who are aggresively hostile towards these things irritate me even more than those who are aggresively positive about them. People should be able to enjoy whatever it is they like, without having to deal with stereotyping and ostracization because of it. Even if one doesn't like something, it's idiotic to look down on other people for liking it.
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